I have had a couple of 'interesting' conversations today with some ppl that are at a crossroads with their lives. Not really sure which way to turn and afraid of making some of the same mistakes they've made before. I certainly can relate.

So...for them, for others, and to remind myself, here is philosophical wisdom according to Candy:

1. Life is like the lottery: You can't win if you don't play.

2. Mistakes are something that will happen and when they do remember...if you're gonna dance, you have to pay the band. Then move on.

3. Life is messy. Learn from and remember your last mistakes so that you won't step in that pile again. Just make sure you are wearing some good boots...just in case.

4. Surprises pop up all along the way. Make sure your vehicle has tires with good tred and traction so you can maneuver quickly and be ready to change direction fast.

And there ya go...

P.S. We all need a hand up/boost from time to time. Don't let stubborness and pride stop you from accepting a little help when you really need it. Just remember to return the favor when you see a chance.